Funerals and Memorials are more of a human affair than a religious affair.
Funerals and memorials have long been associated with religion as they often included a clergy or celebrant. It is mainly because the church clergy were the first to be notified when the death occurred.
As many people opt-in and out of religion, they often opt-out of death rites and, in essence- their humanity.
Death rituals are not only a tool to pay homage to one’s beliefs but are also a safe place and an opportunity to honor your loved one. Funerals provide a chance to confront relationships, acknowledge that death is part of humanity, and give an honorable farewell.
Whether religious or atheist, death occurs to all and can be planned by all.
Both believers and end-life unbelievers must be brutally honest about the reality of life and death. Today you can develop your death values and rituals based on your beliefs, lifestyle, and available information. Decide today by planning alone or with your family by being explicit about your desires at death. Take a stand on how you want to be treated at death, your life Honored, and your Legacy sustained.
